The Wake-Up Call: Your Former Best Friend’s Wedding

You found it hidden underneath a pile of advertising flyers at the back of your mailbox. It laid on its front, wrapped in the most elegant blush-colored envelope you’d ever seen. It was precisely the kind of envelope you would have wanted to unpack in a luxury stationery box—a little thick and yet so delicate at the same time. There was even a cute floral frame that appeared invisibly underneath your fingertips as you touch the surface. Then you turned the envelope, and the moment of realization hit you right in the face. Your name floated on the front in loopy handwriting. Even though you had not seen it in years, you immediately recognized it. It was her, your former best friend from high school. Of course, by now, you don’t remember why you lost touch. Life got in the way. You move away to study, and by the time you remembered her, years had passed. You didn’t specifically look for her, though. You have made new friends, and you’re happy as it is. But, you needed to know what she had to say. So you opened the envelope, and there it was: The invitation to your former best friend’s wedding. You are torn between curiosity and self-awareness. What if she’s turned out much better than you? Will you feel awkward or ashamed meeting her again after all that time?

Here’s the thing. It could be an opportunity to catch up and rekindle the relationship. Besides, there is no need for comparison. You know your worth, and you can stand up proud without being intimated by someone else’s success. But, you’d still like to make a good first impression as you reconnect with your old friend. We’ve got you covered!

Dress up for the occasion

As a wedding guest, it’s fair to say that you don’t want to steal the show. But you also want to dress appropriately for the event, such as picking an elegant wedding guest outfit. The only problem with dressing for the day is the cost, which is precisely why it’s always a good idea to check factory shops and occasion dresses outlet. It’s a practical solution to put on a fashion show without breaking the bank. Ultimately, the right dress will help attract your friend’s attention and create a positive impression. The right balance? You want something stylish that shows you care, but that isn’t trying to outshine her moment. Unless there is a specific dress code, we’d recommend pastel and gentle neutral hues.  

Make it a fun getaway

If you have to travel to attend the wedding, you might as well turn the trip into a pleasant getaway holiday with your significant other and the kid(s). With this in mind, you want to focus on booking the necessary accommodation that will guarantee the comfort of your family. Ideally, family-friendly hotel rooms or 2-bedroom Airbnb rentals can be a game-changer. The last thing you want is to feel cramped and stressed out in a tiny room. Make sure to plan some activities before and after the wedding for your family. When you turn the wedding trip into a moment for togetherness with your family, you give yourself a chance to relax and enjoy the moment. On the other hand, attending the wedding without leaving room for me-time and fun is likely to lead to heightened emotional states. Nobody likes stressed-out wedding guests. You’ll look much better in your skin if your attendance at the wedding becomes one of the things you want to do during your getaway, rather than a chore you’ve been traveling to.

Get your hair freshly done

How old were you last time you spent time with your old friend? Everybody has changed a lot since high school. If you haven’t met each other in years, you may be concerned about how she’s going to perceive your appearance. After all, last time you were 17. Today you’re a proud Millennial mama. Nobody is going to deny that you are still young and beautiful. But you’re not 17 anymore, and that’s all you’re concerned about. Granted, you can’t go back in time. But, you don’t want to appear aged in front of her. Here’s a trick that stylists love: A new haircut can virtually take years off your face. Not all hairstyles will make you look and feel youthful. But take a look at your favorite celebrities to learn a few tips. A feathered shoulder-length cut is flattering and gives the illusion of thick and full hair. A fluff fringe is a dramatic addition to your style that can provide just the lift you need.

Beauty skin without the price tag

Beautiful skin speaks for itself. Maintaining your skin health can make a great deal of difference. Dermatologists recommend bedtime routines that will ensure you wake up looking refreshed and youthful. Something as simple as making sure to wash your face before bed and sleeping with your head elevated can boost your appearance on the next day. If you haven’t switched to retinoids yet, it’s time to ask for a prescription. Retinoids have significant anti-aging properties and can support cell regeneration day after day. Simple tricks can have visible effects on your skin. So why not give it a try?  

Be happy for her

There is no reason for you to be anxious about attending your friend’s wedding. It is an occasion to celebrate together. There could be a million reasons why she wanted to have you there. But there’s only one thing you need to do: Be happy for her. It’s her big day, so you can be sure that a genuine smile and excitement would be part of the celebration. Don’t overthink it. A smiling guest leaves happy memories behind, and that’s what matters.

Embrace the day

Just go with the flow, as the saying goes. The only thing you need to do is to go there with a relaxed and positive mindset. Whether the day rekindles your friendship or whether it only acts as a catch-up before the next separation, it doesn’t matter. You don’t need to have expectations. You just need to be there.

Is the envelope in your mailbox an invitation to a long-lost friend’s wedding? Seize the opportunity to be there for her and make a positive impression. You’ll drown in bitter regrets if you don’t.

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